When medical doctors Felitti and Anda proved the relationship between adult health and Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) in the early 2000s, humanity was not ready for it. It’s getting more ready, but we still have a long way to go. Healing from traumas suffered in childhood is unique to each individual who seeks it. May everyone find what they need to make this world, and our shared humanity, a better place, and a better experience. Great article…but I don’t think you are a “dickhead,” Mr. Hotchkiss. I think you are a skilled writer who is unfolded like a night blooming cereus and remained in bloom.